There is nothing as painful as getting dump by someone you are crazy in love with, The memories of time and love you share together are harder to get over especially if you are still in love with such person. So how can you win your ex back or perhaps you are thinking if there is any hope for you to win back your ex.
The truth of the matter is there is hope and not too late for you to win back your ex. winning back your lost love one is as easy as 'pie' but requires efforts, dedication and a plan of action on your side. You just have to go about it the right way and you are almost guaranteed success.
Here are my winning tips on how to get your ex back
How To Get Your Ex Back - Tip 1
Decide if it's worth it. The main different between restoring a broken relationship and starting a new one is that its takes longer time to restore a broken relationship than when starting a new one. And since there will be an emotional cost associated with winning back the one you want, its make no sense to throw good energy after something worthless unless you are committed to seeing the project to the end.
Therefore decide if you are ready to pay the price for whatever might have lead to the breakup in other to get your ex back or rather go for a new date.
How To Get Your Ex Back - Tip 2
Accept the breakup and find your faults. Another great tips on how to get your ex back is determining first what went wrong in the relationship. If you do not, you're bound for another break up. Accept the breakup and identify the root of the problem. Consider the things you did wrong as well as what you did right.
For instance how much time do you show consideration and kindness by listing to your partner or were you critical or manipulative?. Did you build your companionship with word of praise? Or you were abusive. Your ability to answer this mind bugging question and do justice to it will help a lot in winning your ex back.
How To Get Your Ex Back - Tip 3
Once you feel you are ready to tackle the issue at hand and willing to get back your ex, you'll have to think about the best approach you want to take. Be courageous and keep all interactions warm. Don't be hostile and avoid being contentious. Your ex may get angry or become hostile but don't let this happen to you. Maintain control and express your feelings in a warm, loving, supportive way, you can increase the likelihood of developing a conversation in which an exchange of idea is comfortable. Maintaining control is essential and very vital if you want to get your ex back.
These are just the first steps you need to take if you want to win your ex back. If you want more in-depth and information on how to get your ex back. Or you if you need a personal coach that would help you with love tactics that guarantee of helping you get back your ex click here.
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Friday, December 18, 2009
Friday, December 4, 2009
How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!
For this example I'm going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we'll stick with this.
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you'll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women don't usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don't know what you're doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I've seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I'm from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don't have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don't know. Don't worry, this can be easily solved. I'll give you some simple tips here.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1.
Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman's eye,smile at her – more often than not, she'll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don't WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women's lives a little.
Step 2.
Once you've gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I'm not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.
Step 3.
Here's where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it'll seem easy.
After you've smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don't quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you're approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – hows that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
Like to learn more about how to meet, attract and seduce beautiful women?
(Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you'll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)
As you know, women don't usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.
Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don't know what you're doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I've seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.
But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.
Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I'm from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don't have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don't know. Don't worry, this can be easily solved. I'll give you some simple tips here.
INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL
Step 1.
Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman's eye,smile at her – more often than not, she'll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don't WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women's lives a little.
Step 2.
Once you've gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I'm not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.
Step 3.
Here's where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it'll seem easy.
After you've smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don't quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you're approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).
One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – hows that for effective!
There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…
Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).
Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).
You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.
If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
(Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!
ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!
If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...
Like to learn more about how to meet, attract and seduce beautiful women?
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