How To Overcome Shyness And Win The One You Want

It is very stressful to date or try to date when you are shy as there is always pressure on you who is trying to initiate the conversation as well on the one you being approached. One of the main reason for these is the fear of rejection. These make you feel unconfortable making a move. But you can transform yourself from the shy type to the confident one that you should be. The more confident you look, the better the response you will get. The key to successful conversation isn't the use of fancy words in an attempt to make a good impression. But as long as you make a good effort to communicate, you will never make a bad impression. Rather it is when you try to be impressive that you get in to trouble.

Below are some few tips that can make you start a conversation witha new lady you meet and win her over completely.

---STAND STRAIGHT AND BE CONFIDENT When approaching a lady, always remember to satnd straight. An erect stand is a sign of confidence. The way your body posses tells something about you. Try practising this in front of a mirror untill its start to lok natural. Also do not cross your arm if sitting. Crossing your arm is a sign of defensiveness and shyness. Learn to give your confidence a boost.

---MAKE EYE CONTACT

You should realised that conversation involves more than words. It includes eye contact and to some extent body language. When you meet a lady for the first time, it is good to look straight at her, focusing on her eyes and face. Do not make it look frightening and make your eye smile a bit. If you keep a positive attitude by smiling even as you stumble over your words, you are assured to make a good impression.

---START THE CONVERSATION Make the first move by stricking up the conversation. Stay close enough to her to catch her eye and smile briefly. If she smile back and make a direct eye contact that signify that she s open to talking. Starting up a conversation at first may be difficult because of what to say. But a slow and gentle approach is better than coming on like a gangbusters. Once you get her to talk back to you it will help in building your confidence.

---MAKE YOURSELF VULNERABLE TO TALK TO

When you meet someone you are interested in for the first time, you can start up a conversation by focusing on things that are non threatening and impersonal such as weather, the surrounding e.t.c. These will help as a temporary transition to a more meaningful conversation. Ask open minded question to create conversation out of mutual interest to keep the talk going. Say something that will help her build her confidence.

---WATCH HER REACTION

The next step is to watch her reaction to see if she is interested in you. Her eye contact will be directly towards you and her smile wider if she is interested in you. She may even go on extra mile by moving closer and leaning towards you.


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